There’s a lot of bullshit out there in the world… and depending on who you ask, it’s all your fault. People will say it’s your fault because you are a man. They will say that the best dating advice for men is breaking your back for ungrateful people until you die and that everything is your fault.
According to these crazies, it’s even your fault if you don’t go out on dates with women! Or even know how to text them to get dates in the first place (if you want to learn what to message women to get dates then click here)!
On Medium, there’s a woman that believes that 100% of unplanned pregnancies are 100% men’s fault (and it’s not just her, over 10,000 other people support this).
And I’m not kidding you when I tell you I’m saying that quite literally.
Her and 10,000 other people who support her article in only two days.
Here’s her opening few paragraphs:
As a mother of six and a Mormon, I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. When I hear men discussing women’s reproductive rights, I’m often left with the thought that they have zero interest in stopping abortion.
If you want to prevent abortion, you need to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Men seem unable (or unwilling) to admit that they cause 100% of them.
I realize that’s a bold statement. You’re likely thinking, “Wait. It takes two to tango!” While I fully agree with you in the case of intentional pregnancies, I argue that all unwanted pregnancies are caused by the irresponsible ejaculations of men. All of them.
Don’t believe me?
Let’s start with this: A woman’s egg is only fertile for about two days each month. Yes, there are exceptions, because nature. But one egg which is fertile two days each month is the baseline. And those fertile eggs are produced for a limited number of years. This means, on average, women are fertile for about 24 days per year.
But men are fertile 365 days a year. In fact, if you’re a man who ejaculates multiple times a day, you could cause multiple pregnancies daily. In theory, a man could cause 1000+ unwanted pregnancies in just one year. While it’s true that sperm gets crappier as men age, it doesn’t have a fertility expiration date; men can cause unwanted pregnancies from puberty until death. So, starting with basic fertility stats and the calendar, it’s easy to see that men are the issue here.
This article already has over 10,000 ‘claps’. Claps are Mediums form of Thumbs Up that Facebook uses.
In only two days!
So what does this have to do with the best dating advice for men?
It’s easy to find crazy people with crazy opinions, though it’s harder to find 10,000 other people willing to clap for it, but apparently still not impossible.
What does this mean for us?
It means that you have to be willing to stand up for yourself. You have to be willing to say ‘fuck you’ when people get crazy.
Let me explain through the infamous example of ‘nice guys’ vs ‘assholes’…
The Fuck You Position and Why it’s the Best Dating Advice for Men
There’s the infamous debate of if women like ‘nice guys’ or ‘assholes’. Well, to tell ya the truth, they like nice guys. But they get turned on by, and date assholes over ‘nice guys’.
Because assholes have sex appeal. Sure, the stereotype of an asshole is that he’s also a loser. And sometimes they are.
But the difference between a lover and a loser?
Sex appeal and the ability to get women attracted to them.
Getting to a position of ‘fuck you’. Which is a fun way of saying be super confident in yourself and learning a few habits that women find attractive.
Here’s one of my favorite scenes from a movie ever (The Gambler) that explains fuck you perfectly:
It doesn’t mean that you run around screaming ‘fuck you’ left and right (though I won’t stop you). It just means that you stand up for yourself. You stand up for yourself because you’re a man of value.
That’s the kind of asshole that women really fall for. A guy they can’t quite control but cares about her all while not needing her in his life.
Basically, again, it comes down to confidence. If you are confident in yourself you are automatically more attractive than a ‘nice guy’.
Nice guys are pushovers without a spine and it’s because they aren’t confident in themselves.
Sure, assholes are… well, assholes. But at least they’re confident in themselves, and that’s sexy.
Assholes operate from a position of ‘fuck you’. Unnecessarily so sometimes!
You tell them to do something they don’t want to do?
You tell them that they’re responsible for some chick getting pregnant (whether they even had sex with her or not)?
You tell a nice guy to do something that he doesn’t want to do?
I LIVE TO SERVE YOU MASTER!
It’s a little exaggerated for effect, but from my observations it’s not that far off the mark. Nobody respects the ‘nice guy’ because he doesn’t respect himself. And if a woman doesn’t respect a man she will never love him. She might use him and then throw him away once she’s taken everything from him, but she will never give herself to him.
So you can still get laid as a nice guy (though rarely).
You can still get married as a nice guy.
But you will have everything taken from you sooner or later because nobody will ever love a nice guy.
You want to learn how to be successful with women? You want the best dating advice for men?
Learn how to walk with confidence. Learn how to talk with confidence. Hold eye contact with people,and learn how to go after what you want in life.
Learn How to Be Confident
How do you become confident?
You become competent.
Learning how to get better with women is a skill.
How do you get better with a skill?
Half of getting better with women is learning how you present yourself as a confident person. But the other half is actually being confident with women which you will only get better at with practice!
The great news is that once you learn how to present yourself as someone who is confident you will feel more confident. There’s a feedback loop in the brain that when you change your body language, you actually start to feel the difference. Smiling makes you happy!
The same is true for adopting confident body language.
After that, you just need some competence. Competence comes from experience, which incidentally is why women like man-whores much more than virgins.
Experience is sexy because it’s like a gigantic neon light at midnight in the middle of nowhere that screams confidence.
Step 1) learn how to present yourself in an attractive way
Step 2) get competent at different things with women. Things like…
- talking to women
- taking women out on dates
- texting women
- learning how to stand up for yourself and say no
- learning how to love yourself because you’re a man of value. You matter in this world
Step 3) you will naturally become confident
That’s why the best dating advice for men is the position of ‘fuck you’. Lastly, do you have issues with setting proper boundaries with other people? If you are then leave me a comment so we can tackle this problem together 🙂
‘Fuck You’ and Keep Moving Forward
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