Chemistry, that special spark, butterflies in the stomach and who knows what else. It has a lot of different names, but the end result for all of them is the same. It’s a special feeling that most people don’t really know how to describe.
For some, it’s love at first sight. For others, it quickly develops from a small ember into a roaring flame.
Love at first sight does happen, and those moments are very special. In my experience, those moments are often reciprocated and is almost always mutual. When love at first sight happens women are a lot more forgiving of mistakes and they make it easier to get them out on dates with online dating (get the free report on what to message women here).
But what I want to talk about isn’t something that’s blind luck, or based on genetics alone. I’m talking about something that you can master; sexual tension.
It’s in a woman’s best interest to make a man wait for sex because, in general, men want sex while women want attention. The longer a woman can keep a man’s attention, without giving him what he wants, the better for her.
Today’s the day! You finally got her out on a date with you!
This girl might be your dream girl or she might not be. Maybe she’s only a hookup, or maybe you’re still not sure yet. Whatever the case may be it’s okay.
But only if you avoid these very common dating mistakes that I myself used to make when I was new and I see men make over and over… You avoid these mistakes and you’ll be light years ahead of most other men.
When it comes to online dating, this is a typical woman’s perspective:
Even somewhat cute women will be overrun with options. This means that we, as men, have to stand out from the crowd if we want success. Thankfully, the bar is set to such a pathetic standard that it’s not at all that difficult.
I still remember the first date I’d ever been on in my life.
I was terrified…
I could feel this knot in my stomach as I thought about what I would say. It felt like I was suffocating as I was walking into the Panera Bread she wanted to meet at. I could swear that it took me over an hour to walk from my car to the door.
And when I got there, I couldn’t even grip the handle because my palms were sweating so much.