This was a question that I got on Quora about how to design your life. I loved the question and I’m sharing it with all of you!Continue reading “11 Things in Life That Aren’t Worth It: How to Design Your Life”
There’s a lot of bullshit out there in the world… and depending on who you ask, it’s all your fault. People will say it’s your fault because you are a man. They will say that the best dating advice for men is breaking your back for ungrateful people until you die and that everything is your fault.
According to these crazies, it’s even your fault if you don’t go out on dates with women! Or even know how to text them to get dates in the first place (if you want to learn what to message women to get dates then click here)!
On Medium, there’s a woman that believes that 100% of unplanned pregnancies are 100% men’s fault (and it’s not just her, over 10,000 other people support this).
And I’m not kidding you when I tell you I’m saying that quite literally.
Her and 10,000 other people who support her article in only two days.
Do you ever feel like you’re an actor, putting on a smile and an act for everyone else? A facade of happiness while inside feeling that you’re a fraud? All while battling with depression?
Like you’re standing underneath a floor of glass, screaming and beating on it trying to get the rest of the world to acknowledge you. All while they go about their lives without you or even knowing you’re trapped?
Those are some descriptions that I’ve heard about depression, and they match my own thoughts quite a bit. But the best description I’ve ever heard was from a friend:
I still remember the first date I’d ever been on in my life.
I was terrified…
I could feel this knot in my stomach as I thought about what I would say. It felt like I was suffocating as I was walking into the Panera Bread she wanted to meet at. I could swear that it took me over an hour to walk from my car to the door.
And when I got there, I couldn’t even grip the handle because my palms were sweating so much.
This was long before I had my full online dating process down (get the free report on messaging your Tinder matches for dates here). Yet there she was… waiting inside for me.