- Quick Note: Consider this an unofficial follow-up on How to Be Dominant. Because dominance is about gaining respect. Charm and charisma, however, is about exuding warmth and attracting people to you. And you need both to survive and thrive in any kind of social environment
- Dominance gains you respect, but charm and charisma gives you a magnetic pull that makes you likable. Dominance without charm will make people afraid of you whereas charm without dominance will allow others to step all over you
We’ve all seen them… the social butterflies who are able to make friends and connections wherever they go. They’re charming and ooze charisma. The types of people who could sell ice to an Eskimo chipped from their own igloo.
It’s almost annoying how smooth they are with people, like they’ve got access to some kind of social black magic.
Women love them and men want to be them. They’ve got an open invite to anywhere people are involved and everyone is happy to drop everything to do something for these social wizards.
But then when we meet them, we can’t help but be taken in by their energy.
There’s just something about them, their charm, their charisma. It takes everyone in. And instead of hating them like we sometimes do at first we ourselves get taken in and can’t help but like them.Continue reading “Charisma Hacks: A Cheat Sheet On How to Be Charming”