This is a free look into one of the chapters in my upcoming course on online dating (get the free report on messaging women to get dates here). This course is the complete collection of knowledge that I’ve learned on how to get more women using online dating.
You worked up the courage to get her number and she even said yes to a date! Whether you did it while talking to her or through online dating it doesn’t matter! She said yes! If you need help with getting dates then get the free report on how to message your Tinder matches and get more dates here.
There’s a feeling of excitement as the day gets closer, but as the day gets closer you’re still not sure where to go…
Or maybe you haven’t gotten that far yet, maybe you just got her number and you’re trying to figure out where to ask her out.
What would make a great date?
Is it a rousing game of mini-golf? Bowling? Dinner and a movie? Or just straight asking her over to your place?
None of the above!
That Special Spark
Chemistry, that special spark, butterflies in the stomach and who knows what else. It has a lot of different names, but the end result for all of them is the same. It’s a special feeling that most people don’t know how to describe. That’s what this post is about, how to create that feeling, how to touch a girl to turn her on and want more with you.
Today’s the day! You finally got her out on a date with you!
This girl might be your dream girl or she might not be. Maybe she’s only a hookup, or maybe you’re still not sure yet. Whatever the case may be it’s okay.
But only if you avoid these very common dating mistakes that I myself used to make when I was new and I see men make over and over… You avoid these mistakes and you’ll be light years ahead of most other men.
You open up your Tinder account, and at first everything is so exciting! So many possibilities and so many hot women! You start swiping right away.
But then a terrible realization starts to set in… you’re not getting the number of matches that you want. And you start feeling frustrated by the feeling of being ignored.
We’ve all been there, and it sucks. You want to know how to use Tinder so that you can get laid or even find someone special but it’s not working out.
Let’s dive into the first part about why that is…
Understanding a Woman’s Perspective
When it comes to understanding how to use tinder to get more women, we have to start with the women.
And this is a typical woman’s perspective:
Even somewhat cute women will be overrun with options. This means that we, as men, have to stand out from the crowd if we want success. One way to do that is through our messages, click this link to learn how to message women to get dates.
Thankfully, when you arm yourself with a little bit of knowledge you’ll realize that the bar isn’t set too high.
I still remember the first date I’d ever been on in my life.
I was terrified…
I could feel this knot in my stomach as I thought about what I would say. It felt like I was suffocating as I was walking into the Panera Bread she wanted to meet at. I could swear that it took me over an hour to walk from my car to the door.
And when I got there, I couldn’t even grip the handle because my palms were sweating so much.
This was long before I had my full online dating process down (get the free report on messaging your Tinder matches for dates here). Yet there she was… waiting inside for me.