What if She Doesn’t Respond to Your Tinder Message? Did She Even Read it?

You worked on your pictures and you got a match, awesome! When you start to things finally working that’s when you start building wins.

This is a short blog post since it’s been a while since I posted. I’ve been working so hard on the course I made for you guys. It’s everything about online dating.

If you need to get your own online dating process down then check out the best course on online dating on the planet. 

Or even the introductory version which you can get here. Or just sign up for the free giveaway I give to people for free by clicking here 🙂

Now onto the post, what do you do when a woman doesn’t get back in touch with you? Did she even read your message? This is a hugely popular Quora answer that people love that I wanted to share, enjoy!

Tinder doesn’t include read receipts anymore, unfortunately. The app used to tell you when the person last logged in, but doesn’t do that anymore either.

So that only leaves one way to tell if the other person has been online; and that’s if their location has changed while yours has not.

How to do that:

  1. If they change something on their profile
  2. If they message you back/like one of your messages
  3. If their location changes while yours hasn’t

What I mean by number 3 is that if you use the app in your home or your workplace and the person is 5 miles away. And then you check back in an hour in the same place and they’re 6 miles away you can tell that they’ve been on the app.


Because the app doesn’t update locations unless they’ve actually used/opened the app

Honestly though, you shouldn’t worry about if they have read your message or not. Give them a few days and then if you want you can send a follow up message (only a single follow-up though). 

That’s what happened with one of the first girls I ever fell in love with. If you send a message and she doesn’t respond, go ahead and give her a minimum of 3 days. You can even go up to a week if you want. 

Then send a follow up message to re-start the chat. You can do this at any point in the conversation, whether it’s on the first message or even if you’ve been chatting a while. 

That’s what happened with that girl I mentioned. She responded to my first message but then didn’t respond to my next one. 

The magical line that got her to re-start the conversation where we then set up a date? “Happy Sunday!”

That’s it, that’s all I sent. That’s all it takes to re-start the conversation. 

Why does this work? 

Because if she’s interested but legitimately forgot to respond but wanted to, then this allows her to easily pick the conversation back up without losing face. This helps her to not feel like an idiot for accidentally blowing you off. 

And just like that you can sometimes skip the rest of your process and get right into the date after that. 

Sadly, this was well before I had my own online dating process down. But even though I was still new at the time we ended up meeting up and were having sex within an hour of meeting each other. It was one of those instant connections that doesn’t happen very often. 

So go ahead and send a follow-up message. You don’t want to send anymore than that because then you’ll look needy. But if you give up after the first obstacle you might just miss out on miss perfect-for-you, and I shudder to think about what would have happened had I not met that girl. 

She changed my life and I wouldn’t be where I am now without having met her. The same is true of her as well, and I wouldn’t have changed a thing about dropping my pride and sending that follow-up 🙂

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P.S. if you still need to get your own online dating process down then check out the best course on online dating on the planet. You can get the full course in the previous link or this one and change your life immediately or you can look into the introductory version and play it safe instead. Either way, don’t miss out on your dream girl like I almost did 🙂 

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Course Coming Soon – How to Triple Your Tinder Matches

Are you frustrated with your online dating efforts? Do you wish you could sleep with more women?

Lately, I’ve been pouring all of my energy into a single project. This project is the end result of four long and hard years. Four years of experimenting, tweaking and testing. Four years of mind-numbing failures and movie worthy successes.

Four years all leading into a course on How to Triple Your Tinder Matches and Sleep with More Women.

This course is the culmination of all of my knowledge on all things online dating. Not only my knowledge as an online dater, but also my experiences and knowledge of photography. That means how to get the best possible pictures imaginable. You’ll learn how to pose your body and what pictures work and why.

The course isn’t finished yet, but I promise to update you when it is.

The course is finished! Just putting on some final touches! Expect to see a post about it soon! 

Meanwhile, you can get the free, mini-version to help you get started seducing more women by clicking on the button down below.

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How Safe Is Your Life From MeToo?

I’ll start off by saying this: MeToo was a great thing when it first came out. It helped uncover some truly disgusting abuse that was taking place. And it gave a much needed voice to women who were in pain.

But that’s not what MeToo is now. MeToo isn’t about helping the abused anymore. Today, it’s about power.

Let’s start with some hypocrisy:

Quote from an article in the nytimes:

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Seduce Like Casanova: The Best Dating Advice for Men

There’s a lot of bullshit out there in the world… and depending on who you ask, it’s all your fault.

It’s your fault because you’re a man.

Sometimes it’s even your fault if you don’t go out on dates with women! Or even know how to text them to get dates in the first place (if you want to learn what to message women to get dates then click here)!

On Medium, there’s a woman that believes that 100% of unplanned pregnancies are 100% men’s fault (and it’s not just her, over 10,000 other people support this). And I’m not kidding you when I tell you I’m saying that quite literally. Her and 10,000 other people who support her article in only two days.

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Seduce Like Casanova: Ask ‘Why?’

There she is right in front of you, and she looks stunning. Time seemed to stand still for a second the moment you laid eyes on her, and she smiled at you when she saw you.

Perhaps you’re on a first date with her, or maybe you just saw her across the way and felt your heart start running a mile a minute. Or maybe even came across her profile online (in which case you’ll need to know how to get her on a date with you, get the free report here).

Either way, you need to talk to her. This here could be your future wife, future baby mama or even something else entirely!

But there’s a problem… what the hell do you talk about with women?

That’s what we’re going to dive into today, let’s get started.

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Do You Make These 11 Tinder Mistakes?

You open up your Tinder account with a sense of dread… no new notifications.

“Is there even a point to continue mindlessly swiping?” you think to yourself. Or maybe you even think ‘This is never going to work’ (if so I’ve got you covered here).

It’s frustrating.

So let’s go over some of the common reasons that I’ve seen for why some guys have an empty Tinder (or other online dating) account and what to do about it.

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The Ultimate Guide to Beating Depression: Depression’s Penicillin

Do you ever feel like you’re an actor, putting on a smile and an act for everyone else? A facade of happiness while inside feeling that you’re a fraud?

Like you’re standing underneath a floor of glass, screaming and beating on it trying to get the rest of the world to acknowledge you. All while they go about their lives without you or even knowing you’re trapped?

Those are some descriptions that I’ve heard about depression, and they match my own thoughts quite a bit. But the best description I’ve ever heard was from a friend:

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Dating Misadventures: Her Sister Took a Picture of Me With My Junk Out of My Trunk…

Here’s a story that people on Quora love and by far my favorite story, edited with additional info. Here ya go 🙂

I was literally caught with my pants around my ankles before…

I matched this girl on the Tinder app and we talked. We seemed to have online chemistry and we swapped numbers. Nothing too special so far.

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The Most Important Thing in Online Dating

This is a free look into one of the chapters in my upcoming course on online dating (get the free report on messaging women to get dates here). This book is the complete collection of knowledge that I’ve learned on how to get more women using online dating.

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The Shocking Truth About First Date Locations

You worked up the courage to get her number and she even said yes to a date! Whether you did it while talking to her or through online dating (get the free report on how to message your Tinder matches and get more dates here) doesn’t matter, she said yes!

There’s a feeling of excitement as the day gets closer, but as the day gets closer you’re still not sure where to go…

Or maybe you haven’t gotten that far yet, maybe you just got her number and you’re trying to figure out where to ask her out.

What would make a great date?

Is it a rousing game of mini-golf? Bowling? Dinner and a movie? Or just straight asking her over to your place?

None of the above!

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