Body language. It’s something that can make or break you when dealing with people. Poor body language means people thinking poorly of you. While great body language can only help you, including in helping you feel more confident. Not just socially, but mentally, emotionally and physically as well. Great body language starts with good body posture.
But first, what is poor posture and what should we do to fix posture?
Disclaimer: I’m not being paid to write this, nor have I been given anything for this review. I am doing this review because of an article I love on Dr. NerdLove (find it here, it’s about what couples can learn from Gomez and Morticia Addams. PHENOMENALLY AWESOME READ). After reading more I wanted to do an article about how to build your lifestyle based on Dr. NerdLove. A lifestyle that you will love and makes you happy.
I think Harris has some great stuff on his website, and this isn’t all that he focuses on. But building your lifestyle is what I will focus on in this review
I’ll be honest, sometimes I feel an indescribable rage. I have had back-to-back worst years of my life. 2017 hit me like a big bag of thundercocks. Then 2018 followed up like a train blazing full speed ahead right into my chest.
My life isn’t where I want it to be. And that’s okay.
It’s also okay if your life isn’t where you want it to be.
Anger, when channeled and controlled, can be a force for good. That’s a point that I loved on Harris’ site, an article on the Positive Value of Anger.
You know that body language is important, but are you sometimes unsure what to do about it? How do you appear taller? How do you stand like Superman and gain his confidence (get Superman’s superhero confidence here)?
That’s what this short (no pun intended) post will cover today. It’s about how to look more attractive, and even look taller with one easy tweak!
Check out this minute long video that inspired today’s post:
That video is an amazing representation of how people don’t connect the dots between Clark Kent and Superman.
The changes are subtle, but the difference in body language does make him look like a different person altogether!
Though, when I asked the girl sitting next to me in the coffee shop for her thoughts she thought ‘Superman’ looked a bit shifty. The moral of that part of the story is don’t hesitate. If you hesitate you look creepy 😉
How to Stand Like Superman
I’ve got an ultimate guide on body language in the workshop that will dive into these things more in-depth (EDIT: because of the huge amount of information there is in body language, I’ve decided to split it up into a series that I’ll be working on. Check that out here). But for now, here is a quick rundown to get you started:
Straighten your back. Pull your shoulders back and speak from your stomach.
Chris, in the above video, shows you exactly why these small things are so important. He goes from an unattractive nerd to a stud.
These changes aren’t anything major. In fact, they’re just a few small tweaks. But if you stand like Superman you will become more attractive in literally seconds.
But because of those changes he comes off as a completely different person!
You might not be trying to hide a super hero identity (although if you are, call me!)
But you can easily transform yourself into your own hero. It doesn’t matter if you’re as dorky as Clark Kent, unable to even speak to a woman without fumbling through your words. This is where I started. Hell, I was even worse. I accidentally yelled at my first date!
You can transform yourself in literally seconds. Transforming from Clark Kent’s 2/10 into Superman’s 10/10 in seconds.
You will have to focus on the changes to make sure they become a new, more attractive habit. But it’s possible, and if you need any help then make sure to leave a comment. We’re all in this together 🙂
Until next time, Keep Moving Forward -Alexander
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Disclaimer: I am not being paid, nor have I been given anything for this review. I am writing this review because I recently found The Power Moves and I love what Lucio has to say. Lucio does not focus only on dominance, as I will in this review. But they were the articles that put the most stars in my eyes because I have seen barely anyone write such well-written articles on it. When I found him I knew I had to reach out to review him. His website will help you, just as it is helping me.
Also, I have to mention that English is not Lucio’s first language. You will find some errors in his writing. Same with his videos. These are tiny errors that native English speakers also make. You will understand him. The information is solid and Lucio makes it easy to understand, especially with video examples. Don’t let dumb excuses get in the way of becoming a better man.
Final disclaimer: his website doesn’t allow you to right click and some of his links don’t automatically open a new window and this frustrates me. That doesn’t, however, take away anything from the content. The content is something that I fully endorse and is worth the slight right-clicking annoyance.
Have you ever seen a guy walk into a room and immediately be respected by everybody? Not only respected, but also see that women are attracted to him before even speaking to him?
I know I have, and it was unbelievably frustrating.
I would think to myself: “What does this guy have that I don’t? Why is he so special?”
Disclaimer: I’m not being paid to write this review. I have not been given anything to do this review. I’m doing this because I loved Goldmund’s book. If you are looking for a way to supercharge your seduction arsenal and love photography (or want to get into it) then this is for you!
Though I do want to say, don’t buy this book and get into photography just for the women. Yes, photography helps. Yes it can and will help get you laid. But so will a lot of other things in this world, so choose something that you love to do. Just like most things, this is only an amplifier. If a guy sucks with women then getting a camera will not turn him into a Casanova, it’ll turn him into a creeper (same if the women are his only reason for getting a camera in the first place). But if a guy is alright with women then he’ll be more alright with this. If a guy is awesome with women then he’ll be even more awesome and etc.
It’s a way to have more fun, not a miracle drug.
If you’re curious about photography there are some cheaper options to get started, like a point and shoot camera. That way you can get started without breaking the bank. Otherwise you’ll need to get a heavy duty DSLR camera.
Disclaimer: I am not being paid to write this review. Nor have I received anything to write a review. I am writing this review because to give you guys more viewpoints on meeting women. Areas like meeting women while out and about during the day, commonly referred to as ‘daygame’. Currently, I myself am growing this skill and I want to show you guys other places you can go to, to get more information on more ways to meet women.
I’ll be doing an ongoing series reviewing different people in the industry so you can get more information on different things. Some of which will work better for you than online dating, and that’s okay. I’m here to help you guys however I can and this is one way to do that, by giving you more sources of information to use for your own life. Enjoy 🙂
Have you ever been going about your day, looked over and discovered that there was an absolute stunning woman in your line of sight?
Maybe it was in a coffee shop, perhaps it was while you were walking down the street and you made eye contact for what felt like hours. In reality it was only a few seconds but it probably left an impact on you.
Sometimes it doesn’t, sometimes it does.
But it’s something that we’ve all experienced. I’ve certainly experienced it. Even back before I would have had the courage to do anything about it.
I’ve talked to quite a few men, especially on Quora where they haven’t done anything about it either. It’s okay that you haven’t, it’s scary the first few times you even try.
I still remember when I tried talking to a woman the first few times. And, like my first date, it didn’t turn out well…
But this is a valid way of meeting women, once you learn what goes into it. I myself still have to work on this skill a little more before I feel qualified to talk about it in-depth with you guys.